Anonymous asked: I'm a girl, 21 years of age and still a virgin. My virginity is my pride which I don't want to give to some guy who later appears to be a jerk. Not my body, but my lack of sexual experience makes me reticent, but I do long for a guy to be intimate with. I'm afraid I won't dare to take the intiative. I was wondering what your view on this is.

I was very cautious with my virginity. My advice is not to get too attached to it that you’ll never give it away. It’s a state of being that once you pass, you grow as an individual. It’s like any life change, you learn from it. You can never be sure that you’re with the perfect guy that wont ever turn into a jerk, because honestly everyone is a little bit of a jerk. But if you’re comfortable with a guy and want to reach a point of connection you have never had with anyone else, don’t be afraid. It’s a beautiful, natural thing and should be experienced.


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