Always!

HAHA that’s how I feel. I don’t know! It’s just hard for me to get him worked up and I assume hard for him to get me worked up. It’s strange because he’s the absolute perfect partner in everything but sex.

Oh god…I love my boyfriend but the sex is not that amazing and not that often. 

Well he made me a vibrator the other week because he’s one of those guys that can make anything, so we tested it out and had lots of lovely foreplay with lots of lube. It was just really fun to do something different :)

Why not? I think if the person I was with was really into it and both of us were comfortable with it, it’s worth a shot. Kinks are cool when used right.

Hmm. This one is tough and has sat in my inbox for a long time.

I like older men, and I think there’s a difference between your physical age and mental or soul age. But I think I personally would feel uncomfortable, and any sex is bad sex where one participant is uncomfortable. But who knows, my mind might be changed by a certain guy. It’s just strange since I’m still in college and I can’t relate much to adult life, haha.

Thanks :)

Well if there was a tongue involved, quickly could mean less than 30 seconds. Even with penetration, I could cum in about that same time. But I’m definitely a multiple orgasm girl so sometimes it wasn’t an issue, but sometimes it was. I would get dry and it would start to be painful.

I cum from both penetration and clit, but they’re different and I definitely prefer clit if a guy knows what he’s doing but I’ve found he almost never does. Well, that’s not true with a tongue but with fingers guys are pretty much always too rough, and most definitely not in a good way. I like rough penetration but not rough clit play at all. It’s like taking sandpaper on a healing rugburn-it fucking hurts like hell. I’m not sure though if that’s just me and I’m just sensitive.

To keep myself from cumming too fast and thus becoming too dry for sex, I usually thrust my hips forward and tuck my butt back, (arching my back) so that penetration isn’t so deep. Sometimes I’ll even tell a guy to stop and let me cool down a bit, or I’ll just start focusing on him while I’m cooling off.

Relax. Take long foreplay time. Find someone you’re comfortable around. I used to come really quickly. It was cool but not always fun because I would be satisfied when the guy was just starting and I would start losing interest. I just found guys I was comfortable around and could experiment with. I found out how to change my angles to have less feeling when I needed the build up.

Find someone where you can learn just from experience. Find someone who doesn’t pressure you and is totally okay if your penis is like ‘nah man I’m good’ sometimes. My other suggestion is to masturbate before you think you’re going to see someone, or just more regularly. Sometimes we get so sexually pent up that it explodes in the first minutes of sex. That’s fun sometimes, but if you want it to last, dissipate that regularly.

Yeah, one. It really wasn’t much of a scare though because I’m on birth control and really careful about being safe. But I just took a pregnancy test. It was negative so everything was cool.

^This makes me so ineffably happy. I am so happy to give you conscious-friendly amateur porn! haha :) And yeah, there are definitely too many asshole guys in the world that post private pictures.

Guys- if she doesn’t OK you posting it, don’t be the douchbag that posts it anyway. It’s a huge (and potentially destructive) thing for a girl to open up and share something like that, and if you’re going to just put it up for all to see without her okay with it- you don’t deserve to see it.

Never! But I must see the final product :):)

Yeah, it’s got to be awful to feel inadequate. You really shouldn’t though. You are what you are and you have to use what you’ve got. I still stick by the ‘a bad workman blames his tools’. A guy with a small penis can still get a girl off, he just has to come up with new ways and try harder to please her. He doesn’t, however, have to get her drunk. That is bad workmanship in my opinion.

Well, it definitely depends on the type of girl you want to attract. If you want to attract a girl like myself, come from the heart and be so insanely awkward and completely yourself that it’s adorable and impossible not to fall in love with you. (I have a huge thing for socially awkward boys). But I’m not sure if I can help you if you want a different type of girl, the whole ‘sexy cold vixen’ type because that’s not me and I’m awful at talking to girls like that too.

Currently? Hippie overgrown crazy jungle.

Naw. I haven’t been single in a while. My last boyfriend was uncomfortable with it and my current one barely even knows how to use google. I think it might be fun though.

Yes. I give you my permission and blessings on your quest.